Updated for 2025 | Everything you need to know about being a thoughtful, present, and well-prepared godparent.
Whether you're newly named as a godparent or simply want to do things right, this guide shares everything you need to know — from baptism gift etiquette to meaningful godparent roles. We’ve also included our top 2025 baptism gift ideas to help you celebrate your godchild’s special day with love and intention.
What Is the Obligation of Godparents?
When you agree to be a godparent, you promise to play a major role in your godchild’s spiritual growth. You’re also making a financial and emotional commitment . Here's what that means:
Supporting your godchild’s connection to their faith
Attending significant milestones, such as their baptism, first communion, and confirmation
Giving gifts that celebrate major life moments
Accepting the role of godparent is a meaningful decision . It’s one that creates a lasting bond not just with your godchild, but with their family. This sacred role can also deepen your own faith as you guide another.
What Is the Etiquette for Godparents?
Good godparent etiquette is all about being present, thoughtful, and reliable. Here’s how to show up:
Be a positive role model in life and faith
Spend time with your godchild and make them feel special
Attend religious and family events when possible
If you don’t feel ready for the responsibilities of being a godparent, it’s okay to graciously decline . It’s better to give parents the opportunity to choose someone who can fully commit than to take on a role you’re unsure about.
If you do accept, what you put into the relationship is what you'll get out of it . The more effort you give, the more meaningful your connection will be.
What Do Godparents Pay for at a Baptism?
Typically, godparents are expected to purchase a thoughtful baptism gift . This might be:
A personalized baptism gift like a blanket or bracelet
A baptism dress or christening outfit
A prayer book, bible, or framed photo
In Orthodox traditions, godparents may cover the full cost of the baptism ceremony , including church fees and ceremonial items like oil, towels, and the baptism outfit.
A small donation to the church is always appreciated —while not required, it's a kind gesture.
Do Godparents Pay for the Baptism Party?
Godparents aren’t expected to pay for the baptism party. This responsibility tends to fall on the parents whose baby is getting baptized. By providing a reception, the parents have a way to show their appreciation for everyone that attended their baby’s special day. Some receptions take place at the church in the fellowship hall. Others are held at a restaurant or a family member’s home.
That said, receptions are a beautiful chance to connect with the family’s support system , introduce yourself to relatives, and celebrate the special day.
What Is an Appropriate Baptism Gift?
Baptism gifts can be practical, symbolic, memorable, or spiritual . Here’s a closer look:
Practical Gifts: Useful items like a baby blanket, elegant booties, or bib sets
Memorable Gifts: Heirloom keepsakes, framed photos, or baby jewelry
Symbolic Gifts: White baptism outfits, lace gowns, or baby jewelry with crosses or doves
Spiritual Gifts: Children’s bibles, prayer books, or rosaries
Many gifts fall into multiple categories. The best gifts reflect your godchild’s values and traditions—and are chosen with love.
Shop Our Most-Loved Baptism Gifts for Godchildren
What Do Godparents Gift at Baptism?
Not sure what to bring? Here are a few standout baptism gifts for boys and girls:
Baptism Outfit : Soft, elegant, and symbolic — our Ella Romper Dress and Harrison 3-Piece Suit are bestsellers.
Baby Jewelry : Cross necklaces, bracelets with birthstones or initials
Blankets : Our personalized baptism blankets are heirloom-quality and stitched with love
Prayer Books & Bibles : For spiritual growth as they get older
Photo Frames & Albums : Ideal for treasured memories
Looking for the best baptism gifts in 2025? Think practical, personal, and symbolic.
What Are Traditional Catholic Baptism Gifts?
Traditional Catholic baptism gifts often carry deep symbolic meaning . These might include:
Rosaries or medals or christening jewelry
Personalized baby bibles
Christening gowns for girls with embroidery
Baby boy 3-piece suits or baptism outfits in white or ivory
Even modern gifts can carry sacred symbolism , especially when made with care and intention.
Baptism Gifts for Boys and Girls
Whether you’re shopping to celebrate the baptism of a boy or a girl, a charming outfit is the perfect baptism gift from a godmother or godfather. Take a peek-a-boo at these gift ideas for the baptism boy or girl to see why.
Baptism Gift for Godson Ideas
These baptism outfits are cuddly and stunning, and will have attendees gushing over the little bubba:
Baptism Gift for Goddaughter Ideas
These gowns and rompers are elegant, cozy, and perfect for christenings and baptisms:
Whether you’re gifting a romper or a gown, you’re giving more than fabric—you’re gifting a memory.
What Do You Get a Godparent as a Gift from Their Godchild?
To show your appreciation for your child’s godparent:
Personalized mugs, tumblers, or ornaments
Framed photos with the baptism date
A heartfelt thank-you note or small keepsake box
These gifts recognize the godparent’s ongoing love and support.
How Do You Thank Godparents?
A small gift during or after the baptism
An invitation to be part of future milestones
Words of appreciation and time spent together
Keep the bond strong by including them in your child’s life regularly.
Godparent Gift FAQs for 2025
What’s a popular personalized baptism gift?
Our embroidered baby blankets, jewelry with initials, and custom photo frames are favorites.
Do godparents always buy the baptism outfit?
Not always—but it’s a meaningful gesture if the family hasn’t already selected one.
What should a godparent say at a baptism?
Most godparents will recite a profession of faith. If unsure, ask the officiant in advance.
Are godparents expected to pay for anything besides a gift?
In most cases, no. Orthodox traditions may be the exception.
What’s a modern twist on a traditional gift?
A personalized Christening Gown for Girls with embroidered name and date is both classic and current.
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Being a godparent is more than a title — it’s a lifelong promise of love, guidance, and faith.
Whether you’re attending your godchild’s baptism, buying their first bible, or picking out a personalized baptism gift , you are creating lasting memories they’ll treasure.